A few weeks ago we attended an adoption seminar that ended up fueling our desire to adopt a child into over drive. I remember one of the incredible mothers that spoke who called her adoption process a “paper pregnancy.” Wow. I had never thought of it that way.
Granted, it may be a bit longer than 9 months until we hold his precious body in our arms for the first time, I won’t have all those pesky pregnancy symptoms and I can still have a glass of wine… but just like any other new parents to be, we are now officially preparing for our son to come home. <3
Yesterday afternoon we got the official call that we have been accepted into the adoption agency! How exciting! It really did have the same energy as finding out your pregnant! Praise God! A million things have been making my mind spin. Names, nursery ideas, you name it…my noggin hasn’t slowed a bit 🙂
With this pregnancy we will also have a total shake down! It is strange to think that once we get our paperwork done and sent off that our whole lives will be recorded in a 20 page document that will be sent to Africa. Weird. Yet, so wonderful at the same time. Our trips to Africa will be an adventure for my husband and I, with the second trip bringing home our son 🙂
This adoption process is still very foreign to us, but I am determined to move as quickly as they will let me. When we got the official email yesterday it took me an hour to sign, scan, email back 5 documents and send our first online payment. Think I’m excited?
I have already started to ask God to help me with patience because I am prepared (at least I think I am) for the waiting to be the hardest part. Waiting for the paperwork to clear, waiting on the African Embassy to approve us… waiting to finally bring our son home.
Of course finding the finances will also be interesting, but we know that the Lord will provide. God funds what he favors 🙂 I have already started tossing around a few fundraising ideas these past few days. We have had such an amazing out pour of love and support for this adoption and many people have said they want to be part of bringing our little angel home! Isn’t that amazing?!! Thinking of a raffle, garage sale, t shirts…
Anyone have any great ideas??
This three year journey of becoming parents has taught me about faith and my relationship with Christ. No matter how angry I have become at Him at what we have had to endure to make this dream of being parents a reality, He always seems to draw me closer. I am learning that true faith in God comes in the hard times, the times where you want nothing more than to rebel and try it all on your own.
“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28
We are so excited for this new journey and hope you will follow along as we experience the joy of adoption. And maybe even inspire you or someone you know to do the same 🙂
Have a wonderful weekend friends,